important, change of identity and pronouns

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Hey guys, for quite a few months now I have thought and decided I don't like the term genderfluid to describe me.
Although I know genderfluidity is a spectrum and I can be 75% female or 80% male or 99% agender, I would feel uncomfortable with the label genderfluid when I have a strong preference for one gender.

I would now prefer the following:
-Please refer to me with either they/them or she/her pronouns. I doubt anyone would use he/him anyway. If you're unsure, use they/them because I prefer them more heavily.
-In regards to my identity, please don't call me genderfluid, female, male, or any other term in regards to gender. I would now prefer you call me a demigirl.
-Also, in regards to sexuality, I would like to be considered either heterodemiflexible, or monodemiflexible towards males. (What that means: I like mostly guys and the occasional girl both romantically and sexually. however i'm demisexual which means i do not experience sexual attraction until a strong emotional bond is formed.)

Thanks for listening, it means a lot.
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MeleeGypsy's avatar
Ok, should I call u al or alice?